Today, I had a candid conversation with Chelsey Goodan, also known as the Teenage Girl Whisperer, about empowering teenage girls in today's society. Chelsey shares her insights from working with teenage girls for over a decade and discusses the challenges they face regarding sexuality, self-expression, and societal expectations. Join us as we explore the power of communication, empowerment, and authenticity in supporting teenage girls on their journey to self-discovery and empowerment.
In this episode you’ll also learn: 

Effective communication strategies

The power of radical honesty and authenticity in building relationships

How to break cycles of criticism, self-doubt, and judgment


Show Notes:

Chelsey’s Book: Underestimated



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Underestimated: The Wisdom of Teenage Girls w/ Chelsey Goodan

Ever wondered if there's a way to spice things up in the bedroom AND reignite the spark between you and your partner? Well, today I'm about to help you crack the code of the 5 Love Languages and supercharge your relationship. I'll also tackle your burning questions like what to do when you and your partner speak different love languages (more common than you’d think), how to keep the love alive in a long-distance relationship, and sex hacks based on your unique love language combo.
And if that wasn't enough, I also discuss some awkward situations like accidentally critiquing your partner's penis or navigating that awkward phase when you and your partner feel like the spark is gone.
In today’s episode, you’ll learn:

All about the 5 Love Languages

How to keep the flame burning in a long-distance relationship

How to best express your desires with your partner (even if your love languages are different!)


Show Notes:

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Best Of: Sex Up Your Love Language

Today I teamed up with the brilliant developmental psychologist and host of the Raising Good Humans podcast, Dr. Aliza Pressman, for a rollercoaster ride through the wild world of parenting, sexuality, and relationships. From decoding the mysteries of "the talk" with kids to unraveling the enigma of why millennials and Gen-Zers might be having sex less often, we left no stone unturned. Join us as we dive headfirst into understanding and embracing children's gender identities and sexual orientations, all while figuring on how to be the best humans we can be. 
Get ready, because this episode isn't just about parenting—it's about living your best life and loving fiercely along the way!
Show Notes:

5 Principles of Parenting OUT NOW!

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How to Raise Good Humans w/ Dr. Aliza Pressman

When you think of BDSM and kink, I’m sure leather and whips come to mind. But what if I told you that there’s much more to kink than that? Today, I’m here to sprinkle some spice and shed light on the art of BDSM and kink. First up, we'll define key terms and provide a comprehensive understanding of BDSM because let's face it, who really knows what "BDSM" stands for anyway? Then, we'll explore the psychology behind power dynamics and the core desires behind kinky practices. And last but certainly not least, we'll serve up some tantalizing tips for bringing a bit of kink into your bedroom – whether you're flying solo or have a partner in crime.
So, buckle up (or should I say, buckle down?), because we're about to embark on a journey into the wild and wonderful world of kink!
In this episode, you’ll learn:

What BDSM and Kink are really about 

The psychology behind dom/sub dynamics

How to fearlessly bring kink into the bedroom


Show Notes:

What NOT to Say to Your Partner When Talking About Sex

How to Squirt (For Real)

Yes No Maybe List & Other Guides

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5 BDSM Games To Spice Up Your Sex Life Tonight


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Best Of: You're Kinkier Than You Think

In today's episode, I had the pleasure of speaking with #1 NYT Bestselling author Gabby Bernstein. As a spiritual leader and motivational speaker, Gabby shares how you can manifest the sex life you want but through a practical, less woo, lens and how to work through sexual trauma and change your core beliefs around sex. We also get into Internal Family Systems therapy and how young women today speak about sex differently than our generation.
In today’s episode, you’ll learn:

How spirituality can enhance your sexuality

How to boost your confidence (in and out of the bedroom)

Tools for working through trauma


See the full show notes at sexwithemily.com.
Show Notes:

My appearance on the Dear Gabby podcast!

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Happy Days

The Universe Has Your Back

Self Help (coming 2/31/24)


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Manifest Your Best Sex Life w/ Gabby Bernstein

We all want to grow and become better versions of ourselves. And no where is that more true than our sex lives. That’s the mission of today’s call-in show. I answer your questions all about picking up new sex skills. From a fun-loving couple who wants to incorporate others into their play but can’t find the right candidates, to a twenty-something who wants to learn how to squirt on her own - these brave callers’ questions offer something for everyone to learn from. 
In this episode, you’ll learn:

How to find solid friends with benefits

Masturbation techniques

The anatomy of the vulva!


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Show Notes:

The Psychology of Your Kink

How to Squirt (For Real)


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Hotline Calls: Squirting, Toys & Threesomes

It’s the season of love - self love! That’s right, this Valentine’s Day, I’ve got all of you singles covered. In today’s Best Of episode, you’ll learn the health benefits of self-pleasure and how it helps you not only reduce stress but elevate your mood. It's also a gateway to understanding your body, boosting your self-esteem, and giving you some serious pleasure.
In this episode, you’ll learn:

How often you should masturbate in a relationship

How to try masturbation when you never have

The magic of mutual masturbation


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Show Notes:

The Psychology of Your Kink

How to Squirt (For Real)

Your February Solo Sex Challenge


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Seduce Yourself: Solo Sex Tips

Ever wondered: Am I the asshole for watching porn without my partner knowing? Am I the asshole for feeling a little misled about our sex life before we walked down the aisle? Or how about: Am I the asshole for just feeling plain bored with our sex life? You’re not alone. Today, Producer Erica and I read your AITA questions and let you know if you’re approaching asshole territory.
In today’s episode, you’ll learn:

How to be a supportive partner to someone with sexual trauma

How to get clearer on your sexual desires

About the experiences of sex workers


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Show Notes:

How to Give a Prostate Massage

15 Sex Toys That Make Amazing Valentine's Day Gifts


VIIA Hemp Co’s High Love Libido Gummies (code EMILY for 15% sitewide + Free Gummies Sample)

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AITA for Watching Porn While in a Relationship?

Orgasms are one of the most pleasure-filled parts of sex. But what’s actually happening in your body when you have one? Today, I’m breaking down the physiological process of different kinds of orgasms and explaining how to have them. I also reveal how to find your G-area and have a G-spot orgasm, what it means to have a dry orgasm, what squirting really is and how to do it. Plus, I get into your orgasm questions.
In this episode, you’ll also learn:

The anatomy of the clitoris, vulva, and penis so you can better stimulate them

The many benefits of orgasms, for both your mental and physical health

Tips for communicating with a partner if you no longer want jackhammer sex


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Show Notes:

How to Give a Prostate Massage

15 Sex Toys That Make Amazing Valentine's Day Gifts


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Orgasms, Explained.

I’m bringing you all into a LIVE conversation I had with renowned sex educator and researcher, Dr. Emily Nagoski, during a recent event in New York! After releasing her bestselling book on sex, Come As You Are, in 2015, Emily’s own sex life took a hit. Today, we discuss how she brought her sex life back from the dead, the Pleasure Thieves, and why it’s okay to stop sex once it’s already started.
In this episode, you’ll learn:

How to identify your sexual brakes and accelerators

About the connection between wearing socks and having more orgasms

How stress impacts your sex drive desire


See the full show notes at sexwithemily.com.

Show Notes:

The Sexiest Valentine’s Date Ideas (For Every Stage of Your Relationship)

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How to Bounce Back from a Sex Slump w/ Dr. Emily Nagoski

Valentine’s Day is coming up, and I’m here to make sure it’s your best one yet. First, I get into some common Valentine’s Day myths and things you should never do on the sexy holiday. After that, I’ll share some creative ways you should celebrate to ensure that your Valentine’s Day is hot, intimate and of course, sexy. Plus, I share some of my listeners’ favorite Valentine’s Day moments for some hot inspiration.
In this episode, you’ll learn: 

How to incorporate blindfolds into sexual play

Which toys can be used during penetration

How to cultivate sexual desire & intimacy


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Show Notes:

The Sexiest Valentine’s Date Ideas (For Every Stage of Your Relationship)

How to Do the Kivin Method


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The Do’s and Don’ts of Valentine’s Day

On today’s Best Of episode, I’m answering more of your questions from the Sex With Emily Hotline. We get into: how to handle it when your partner wants to have sex with someone else and stay in your relationship, what it means when you fantasize about your ex, how soon is too soon to start dating someone new after a breakup, and ways to avoid ghosting.
In this episode, you’ll learn:

How to set intentions for new relationships

How cannabis can improve your orgasms and intimacy

How to guide a partner during oral sex


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Show Notes:

The Sexiest Valentine’s Date Ideas (For Every Stage of Your Relationship)

How to Do the Kivin Method

The Pleasure Planner, Yes No Maybe List & Other Guides


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Hotline Calls: I Can’t Stop Thinking About My Ex

When it comes to sex, do you have a growth mindset? Whether you’re a new parent and your sex drive has tanked, or you’re trying to break free from a mental pattern that’s blocking your pleasure, we all experience sexual roadblocks. Never fear: you can have a sex reset! On today’s Ask Emily show, I’m helping you ID the obstacles to your sexuality, from trauma to a repressive upbringing, to a disconnect with a partner. And one by one, I help you figure out solutions that open the door to self-exploration.
In this episode, you’ll learn:

What “spectatoring” during sex means, and how to overcome it

Tips for sharing a sexual fantasy with a new partner

How to navigate mismatched libidos in a long-term relationship


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Show Notes:

10 Common Kinks & Fetishes (& What They Mean)


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Best Of: Stop Blocking Your Sex Life

To feel turned on, we first have to feel safe. So today, I’m taking some of my favorite Hotline calls on trust and how to repair it. What happens if your spouse cheated on you, and now sex feels sorta gross? What if you tell a new partner you love them, and they don’t reciprocate? Or how about being “too picky” of a dater - is it really because they’re all duds, or are there some underlying trust issues there? The bottom line is this: when we feel free, we feel sexy. And on today’s Best Of episode, I’m helping you radically reclaim your erotic freedom.
In today’s episode, you’ll learn:

How to move forward after infidelity, whether you were the cheater or the cheated on

Tips for feeling comfortable with new partners

What to do when it feels like the “spark” is gone


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Show Notes:

10 Common Kinks & Fetishes (& What They Mean)


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Hotline Calls: I Can’t Trust My Partner

I’m answering my listeners’ most personal sex and relationship questions LIVE today. Can you only orgasm with straight legs? I’ve got positions and recommendations to help you get there. Nervous that chastity play is giving your partner delayed ejaculation? I ease your worries and help you collaborate with your partner for mutually fulfilling sex. Plus, we get into other kinky calls like erotic lactation and anal sex.
In this episode, you’ll learn:

How to teach your body new ways to orgasm

Common causes of vaginal pain

About chastity play and penis cage safety


Have a question? Call my Hotline 559-TALK-SEX (559-825-5739) or message me at sexwithemily.com/askemily.
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Show Notes:

How to Initiate Sex


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Hotline Calls: Is My Kink Normal?

Sometimes, in our sex lives and relationships, it can be easy to wonder: Am I the Asshole? Don’t worry, because in today’s episode, Producer Erica and I are letting you know if you’re approaching asshole territory in your sexual situations, like: AITA for wanting oral sex every time, not just on special occasions? AITA for rejecting my partner’s advances in the middle of the night? Or how about: AITA for getting upset when my partner turns me down? It’s a juicy one.
In today’s episode, you’ll learn:

Creative solutions for mismatched libidos

What to do if you’re in a sexless relationship

Tips for healthy sex conversations


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Show Notes:

How to Initiate Sex


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Tips for Better Communication & Other Guides


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AITA for Wanting Less Sex?

Today I am bringing back LIVE Hotline Calls! Not only that, holistic psychologist, author, and my newest friend, Dr. Scott Lyons, joins me back on the show to help me answer your questions. From concerns about sexual compatibility to avoiding jackhammer sex, you will hear the change in these callers’ voices as we help them in real-time.
In this episode, you’ll learn:

Effective ways to tell your partner you want to explore sexually

How to have sex talks with a partner who gets uncomfortable

How to feel confident going into a date


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Show Notes:

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Dr. Scott Lyons: Instagram | Website


The Embody Lab


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Hotline Calls: I’m Kinky, But My Partner Isn’t

Burnt out from dating? Do you feel like you’ll never meet “the one?” In today’s episode, celebrity dating coach Damona Hoffman dispels common dating myths and suggests new dating pillars. Plus, she tells us which dating rules to follow (and which to disregard), the #1 expectation for men on dates with women, and how to make your online dating profile stand out.
In this episode, you’ll also learn:

How much chemistry really matters on a date

Who should make the first move

How to track your dates to be more strategic


See the full show notes at sexwithemily.com.

Show Notes:

5 Ways to Be a Better Lover in 2024


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F These Dating Myths w/ Damona Hoffman

I dive into the psychology of foreplay and how to get aroused with specific (and quite sexy) pre-game tips. I also talk about what to do if foreplay and overall sex with your partner has gotten a bit stale, how to tease and arouse yourself, what to do if your partner doesn’t want to explore new things, and how to handle a partner who won’t reciprocate foreplay. Plus, I answer your questions!

In this episode, you’ll learn:

How to set the mood for hotter, more intimate sex

Specific sex tips to seduce a partner

The key differences between couples with ‘great’ vs. ‘bad’ sex lives


See the full show notes at sexwithemily.com.

Show Notes:

How to Have the Best NYE Kiss Ever

5 Ways to Be a Better Lover in 2024

Podcast: The Gottmans on Compatibility, Conflict & Conversation


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Article: Ask Emily: How Do I Get Better at Dirty Talk?


Podcast: Talk Dirty To Me w/ Joanna Angel


Article: 6 Tips for Mastering the Game-Changing Technique of Mindful Masturbation


Yes, No, Maybe List & Other Guides


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Best Of: More Foreplay, More Orgasms

I’m answering your top asked sex questions of 2023 and taking a trip through the hottest moments of the year. It’s the last episode of 2023, and there were definitely some standout episodes you all loved the most. So I’m playing some of the highlights, from my fascinating conversation with Esther Perel to my top Hand Play tips, before answering your top questions.

In this episode, you’ll learn:

What squirting really is and how to do it

How often the average couple has sex

How to have satisfying sex on SSRIs


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Show Notes:

How to Have the Best NYE Kiss Ever

Podcast: Why Do Couples Stop Having Sex? w/ Esther Perel


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